First week of my last term... Happiness! What does my week look like? Well here it is...
Monday - I don't have school on Mondays so I decided to spend some quality time in the gym seeing that my 'race' is coming up quick. A little sweaty and 7.5 miles later I called it a workout, or so I thought. Heather and I have been talking about biking to some classes this term so we decided to give it a trial run. 22 miles later we were both a little sore.
Tuesday - Today I had my first capstone class. Lot of work to do in just a few short weeks. I will need to finish putting together all my research from my practicum project as well as write an analytical research paper on the struggles of being a homeless teen. The paper I will have to present at the end of the term as well. Lots to do!
Wednesday-Saturday - I am heading to Seattle for a few days with some classmates and professors for a national applied anthropology conference. Should be pretty fun and hopefully I will get to listen to some pretty amazing anthropologists!
Talk about an exciting week back!
Tuesday, March 29, 2011
My Last Spring Break!
Wow, how fast can two weeks go by? Trip to WSU, hikes, time with friends, and some much needed me time! Here are a few pictures from the happy days...
Drew and I... We don't believe in growing up!
Lance and I on the top of Table Rock.
Kinda wet at the top.
Dasha and I hiking down in the cold, dark, beautiful night!
Saturday, March 26, 2011
Love, Sweet Love
I am so blessed to be married to such a wonderful man. Someone who, though thousands of miles away, can still comfort me when deployment days get to long or when life simply gets to be too much. Seven months into our second deployment and let me say, some days are hard. I love that we can be on the phone for all of five seconds and Michael can tell when something is wrong and everything stops until he knows I feel better. I feel blessed!
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Army Life,
Deployment,
Michael,
Military Wife
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Oh Happiness!
So friends, I can officially say it... I am done with this darn term! I must say it was busy and with the stress of Michael being gone to, I think I reached my limit. I am excited for the next two weeks to rejuvenate myself and work on some person goals. For today that means I got an extra hour of sleep, now I am off to spend some quality time on the treadmill, taking the kids swimming this afternoon, and this evening I plan on going out with a group of friends to celebrate another term down! Yeah, spring break is never really calmer for me but I hope it will be encouraging.
The last two weeks of school really killed my workout schedule and my eating healthy goals. I am really going to try to get back into this system. Less than a month 'til the Pear Blossom run so I got to get moving!
The last two weeks of school really killed my workout schedule and my eating healthy goals. I am really going to try to get back into this system. Less than a month 'til the Pear Blossom run so I got to get moving!
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Sex Traffickers and the Craziest Day… Ever
I had to share this story with you. It is a post found at SheIsPriceless.com.
Today, we meet a psychologist to girls who have been rescued from the sex-trade.As we walk down the street, she tells us she has a “surprise” waiting at our destination. I’m up for surprises. In fact, I kind of flow with them. The day is clear, a slight breeze is blowing, and for the first time I don’t even need my Northface jacket. We sit down in an outdoor cafe with green umbrellas and Ahmad tea signs all around. Reminds me of Kiev and the sun feels good
“Do you want to know why I brought you here?” Nothing to fear, no need to worry. Of course we do. The black stuff in my cup isn’t real good so it’s not the best espresso in the city. “Why are we here?”
“One of the girls you will meet was trafficked from this restaurant.”
What…did…you…say? At that moment, my world changed. The crowded city street was a different place. A man from the Middle East appeared over Anne Jackson’s right shoulder. Something about him, it wasn’t right.
“In fact, they’re here right now. And so are the girls who are being trafficked. They lure girls here for a job. Then they are sent to Turkey, Israel, and Russia.”
I saw them. Teenagers draped with blond and brunette curls. You’ve got to be kidding me. And I’ve brought Anne here? I mean Simon and Brad are one thing, but a girl? Someone I’m responsible for, and I’ve brought her into the midst of a den filled with sex-traffickers? I looked to the right and saw two more men emerge out of the restaurant. They weren’t Moldovan. Simon’s camera didn’t help things. He was shooting pictures and video faster than Usain Bolt runs the hundred yard dash.
Now we’re the center of attention. We tried to play it cool, acting like we belonged there and were just shooting a plain ‘ol video about life in the big city. My chest got a little bigger, my sixth sense a little stronger. If there was ever a time I longed to be a CIA agent.
An overweight, middle aged man sits down with a young girl at a table ten feet from us. She might be seventeen. We captured the photo. She bats her eyes and tries to impress her. He hands her a wad of cash for last nights exploits.
I’m sickened beyond explanation. And then I realize, this happens every single day. What am I suppose to do? Turn a blind eye? Pretend this evil doesn’t exist? Go back to my comfortable life and wish that young girls aren’t trafficked like this right in front of my eyes?
Something inside tells me I can’t. I’ve been exposed and I’ll never be the same.
At least ten traffickers sniff us out. They’re behind us, in front, to the right and left. We’re absolutely surrounded. But were not in prison like the young girls who fill the chairs. We have a choice. Their choice had already been made for them.
This place has the heavy-weight title of the highest rate of trafficked women in the world. Tens of thousands simply disappear. Our psychologist friend pulls out a local newspaper.
“This is how they trap them. Local ads promising well paying jobs abroad. Everyone wants to leave so all young girls are potential victims.”
I look to the left and to my utter shock, see two girls reading the same kind of newspaper. Once your eyes are opened, it’s everywhere in this place.
“I brought you here so you can see the realities in our country. It doesn’t do you any good if I only show you what most people want to see. This is the reality.“
Tomorrow, we will be with five of the girls who have been rescued from this nightmare. I want to be a real presence in their live and fight back the evil that had control over their life. Thank God there are people here who go to the front lines every day.
I have to do something, I can’t sit on the sidelines and hope this goes away.
We’re in Moldova. Who would like to join us? We stood up from our table and walked out of that hell hole. The beautiful blonde girl didn’t have that choice.
By Tom Davis
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trafficked
Tuesday, March 8, 2011
Ma Vie
Lacey over at Guinn and Bare It is a fellow army wife who I have met through this wonderful world of blogging. She is hosting a get to know each other so here are a few things about me!
1.What chore do you absolutely hate doing?
The one chore that I avoid doing if at all possible is cleaning the bathroom! I think I have all my years working at city pools to thank for this one!
2.What is your favorite body part?
My butt most definitely. It took me a while but I have learned to embrace my curvyness and appreciate how good it can look in a little black dress :)
3. Which celebrity do you get mistaken for?
The only celeb I have been mistaken for is Zeva from NCIS. Not sure how much of a look-a-like I am but I guess I will leave that one up to you!
4.What was the last movie, TV show or book that made you cry or tear up?
I watched Black Hawk Down yesterday. Always cry during that one.
5. What story does your family always tell about you?
Only one?! Probably how I hated hiking when I was growing up and would always walk ten steps behind the rest of the family. What can I say? I wasn't a super athletic girl...
6. What do you love about blogging?
I am enjoying meeting new people and finding a support group online!
7. What are your passions?
Oh I have so many right now. I am passionate about helping people in my own community. I am currently working with homeless youth and see more case management and therapy work in my future. One thing that really gets to me is human trafficking especially within my own country. I would love to continue to work with victims to help them reintegrate into mainstream society.
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Simply Civilians
Monday, March 7, 2011
Difficult Days
Every once in a while deployments get to just get to me, and I think it is ok to admit when it happens. You would think after 18 months of collective deployments I would have this down.
Tonight in class I had to watch Black Hawk Down and analyze it from an anti-war perspective. It was harsh. I guess it was just a reminder of how far apart we are and how much I miss him.
I am so thankful that my man is in a "safe" area, calls me every chance he gets, and is so supportive and understanding with all my ups and downs.
<3 Praying every day for my loves safe return and my sanity while he is away <3
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Army Life,
Michael,
Military Wife,
School
Sunday, March 6, 2011
Right about 3 months!
Now we all know about army time, right? The fact that you are given a date and know that it will be sometime around that date but it definitely wont be that exact date... :) Well that is how R&R is going to be. So for me, I am planning on my husband getting his short two week leave at the end of may or beginning of June. That means we are right about three months away! Three months sounds so much better than four months right?!? So, today I can't help but be thankful for February being a short month, the distraction of school, and the ability to check days of my calendar. I so can't wait to give my man a hug!
Michael and I got some great plans for R&R which include my graduation, car shopping, and running away for a week together to see the Oregon places we love so much! I am not normally a big counter of the days when he gets back just because I know from experience that the dates are always flexible and also it can just get so downright depressing seeing how many days left. Instead I count the months and obstacles in between us. This is what I have come up with...
Michael and I got some great plans for R&R which include my graduation, car shopping, and running away for a week together to see the Oregon places we love so much! I am not normally a big counter of the days when he gets back just because I know from experience that the dates are always flexible and also it can just get so downright depressing seeing how many days left. Instead I count the months and obstacles in between us. This is what I have come up with...
- Finals next week
- Spring break trip to see Drew
- My first 10 mile run
- My final term at SOU
No pain, no gain. Right...
So as you have probably observed, I have been training to run/walk a ten mile race at the beginning of April. However, the past few weeks I have had really bad pain in my knees. Apparently you are not suppose to go from doing very little exercise to putting in 1-2 hours a day. I took a week off from the gym, swallowed some Advil, and excessively used ice packs but my darn knees are still yelling at me. I decided today to head back to the gym and see how they felt. I think I discovered the source of my pain! All those dreaded lunges, squats, and reclining sit-ups, yeah, I don't think I shall be doing much more of those in the future. Guess I'll have to find some new ways to work out the legs, ways which wont cause immobilizing pain!
I am still going to shoot to run the ten mile race and hopefully my knees wont bother me too much. I have discovered that it is good for me to set small goals for myself. It helps keep me positive and working towards a better me :) As long as I don't pass out in the middle of the race, I think I will be good!
I found this necklace on etsy and I must say it is perfect for me!
I am still going to shoot to run the ten mile race and hopefully my knees wont bother me too much. I have discovered that it is good for me to set small goals for myself. It helps keep me positive and working towards a better me :) As long as I don't pass out in the middle of the race, I think I will be good!
I found this necklace on etsy and I must say it is perfect for me!
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Training
Thursday, March 3, 2011
Girl's Nights and Birthdays!
In the midst of chaos with school, work, and deployments one of my favorite and only times to breathe are girls nights. This past week Heather and I sat aside our books for a few hours and went on a cupcake craze. Thank you Brooke for having a birthday and letting us indulge on sweets!
Spring Break Projects
One of the things that I am super excited about spring break for is being able to pull out my sewing machine again and work on some new projects. My only problem now is that I picked up some dress patterns the other day and don't know which one I should do over break because I doubt I will have time for all of them :) So here are the pictures, let me know which one you think I should do!
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Projects
Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Senior Year
Have I mentioned that I am taking nineteen credits this term? Yeah, it is too much. So I am wrapping up dead week right now and something like three presentations and five papers in four days... did I mention that it is too much?
Trying to keep my head above water here and have observed that I have no social life outside of school. This makes me realize how thankful I am for some of my school friends, namely Heather and Brooke, who keep me smiling and getting assignments in on time. Can't wait to start my final term with these guys!
Oh, and I can't wait til spring break! I am going to be house sitting most of the time which will be so nice to have my own space. Also, going to make a quick trip up to see my little brother at WSU. Going to make some good memories.
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School
Tuesday, March 1, 2011
Chocolate Milk
There are things that remind me of him. Tonight it was seeing chocolate milk in the store :) In Texas we use to go on date nights and just go driving or stargazing. Michael would get his Mt. Dew and I would get a chocolate milk. Seeing it in the store just sent me back there.
Long days without the love of your life teach you to appreciate the simple things in life. Seeing couples holding hands, eating lunch together, even just texting remind me of him and to appreciate all the moments together. The Army separates us for months at a time, but it also teaches us how to love.
Only about 14 weeks separates me from my baby!
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Army Life,
Michael,
Military Wife